We Built Poise Because Dating Apps Failed Us
Like most people, we've experienced the anxiety of staring at a blank message field. The pressure to be witty, charming, and authentic—all in one opener. The fear of saying the wrong thing to someone you're genuinely interested in.
We tried the existing "Rizz" apps. They gave us cheesy pickup lines that felt inauthentic. The AI didn't understand our situations—dating as a couple, explaining non-monogamy, navigating kink conversations.
So we built something different.
Poise is an AI conversation coach that actually understands modern dating in all its complexity. We're not here to give you "lines" that work on everyone—we're here to help you communicate authentically with the specific people you're interested in.
And because we value privacy (especially in dating), we made sure your conversations never leave your device. We don't want your data. We just want you to feel confident.
Our Values
Privacy First
Your dating conversations are intimate. We built Poise so we literally cannot access them.
Inclusive by Design
ENM, kink, queer dating—we built Poise to understand the full spectrum.
Authenticity Over Tricks
No manipulative tactics. We help you communicate genuinely.
Skills, Not Dependency
Our goal is to make you more confident over time.
Ready to Date with Confidence?
Download Poise and start having authentic conversations today.