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Dating Advice That Doesn't Make You Cringe
The internet is full of "Rizz" tips and manipulation tactics. Here's the thing: most of that advice doesn't work—and when it does, it attracts people you don't actually want. This section is for people who want to date authentically. Who want connections based on who they actually are, not who they're pretending to be.
Attracting People Who Like the Real You (2026)
The goal isn't to attract everyone—it's to attract people who want the actual you. Here's how to find connection based on authenticity.
Authentic vs. Performative Dating: Which Gets Better Results?
Compare authentic and performative approaches to dating. Learn why being yourself actually works better than playing a role, and how to make the shift.
Being Yourself on Dating Apps (It's Harder Than It Sounds) (2026)
Everyone says 'just be yourself' on dating apps. But that's easier said than done. Here's how to actually show up authentically.
Building Trust Before Meeting in Person (2026)
You want to feel safe before you meet. Here's how to build enough trust through messaging to make that first meeting feel right.
The Complete Guide to Authentic Dating (2026)
Dating authentically creates real connections. Here's the comprehensive guide to being genuine while dating—from profiles to relationships.
Connection vs. Compatibility: Understanding the Difference (2026)
You can feel connected to someone and still be incompatible. Here's how to understand and evaluate both for healthier relationships.
Consent in DMs: How to Flirt Online Without Being Creepy
There's a line between confident and creepy. How to read signals, ask for consent naturally, and have flirty conversations that respect boundaries.
Dating Without Masking: Showing Your True Self (2026)
Many of us mask on dates—hiding parts of ourselves to seem more appealing. Here's how to show up as your genuine self.
How to Deepen Early Connections (2026)
You've matched and talked—now what? Here's how to take early connections deeper and build real intimacy.
Being Emotionally Available While Dating (2026)
Emotional availability is the difference between going through the motions and actually connecting. Here's how to show up fully for the people you date.
Building Emotional Intimacy (2026)
Physical intimacy is one thing—emotional intimacy is deeper. Here's how to build genuine emotional closeness in your relationships.
A Feminist Approach to Dating: Respect, Equality, and Authenticity
Explore what feminist dating means in practice: challenging traditional scripts, centering consent, dividing labor equally, and building connections based on mutual respect.
Finding Your Authentic Dating Voice (2026)
How do you communicate in a way that's genuinely you? Here's how to discover and develop your authentic dating voice.
Building Connection That Lasts (2026)
Early connection is one thing—lasting connection is another. Here's how to build relationships that stand the test of time.
Having Meaningful Conversations While Dating (2026)
Small talk gets old fast. Here's how to have conversations that actually matter and reveal who you both really are.
How to Move Past Small Talk on Dating Apps (2026)
Stuck in surface-level conversations? Here's how to get to real connection instead of endless 'how was your day' exchanges.
Beyond 'Hey': 10 Openers That Show You Actually Read Their Profile
Move past generic greetings with openers that demonstrate genuine interest. Templates, examples, and the psychology behind first messages that get responses.
How to Actually Read a Dating Profile (And What to Do With What You Find)
Develop the art of profile reading: spotting red flags, recognizing green flags, finding conversation starters, and reading between the lines.
The Slow Dating Movement: Quality Over Quantity
Discover the principles of slow dating: fewer matches, deeper conversations, and a more sustainable approach to finding connection. Combat dating app burnout.
How Much Vulnerability Is Too Much Early On? (2026)
Vulnerability builds connection—but how much is appropriate when you're just getting to know someone? Here's how to calibrate.
The Role of Vulnerability in Dating (2026)
Vulnerability feels risky, but it's essential for real connection. Here's how to be vulnerable without oversharing or getting hurt.
Vulnerability as a Dating Superpower
Learn why vulnerability creates deeper connections, how to share appropriately, and practical ways to develop this essential dating skill.
When to Define the Relationship in ENM (2026)
The 'what are we?' conversation is complicated in polyamory. Here's how to know when it's time and how to navigate it.
Why 'Rizz' Is Overrated: The Case for Radical Honesty
Forget the pickup lines and performance. Discover why authentic connection beats manufactured charm every time, and how radical honesty leads to better dating outcomes.