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Dating Advice That Doesn't Make You Cringe
The internet is full of "Rizz" tips and manipulation tactics. Here's the thing: most of that advice doesn't work—and when it does, it attracts people you don't actually want. This section is for people who want to date authentically. Who want connections based on who they actually are, not who they're pretending to be.
Authentic vs. Performative Dating: Which Gets Better Results?
Compare authentic and performative approaches to dating. Learn why being yourself actually works better than playing a role, and how to make the shift.
Consent in the DMs: How to Flirt Respectfully
Learn how to read signals, escalate appropriately, and navigate conversational consent in dating app messages. A guide to flirting that respects boundaries.
A Feminist Approach to Dating: Respect, Equality, and Authenticity
Explore what feminist dating means in practice: challenging traditional scripts, centering consent, dividing labor equally, and building connections based on mutual respect.
Beyond 'Hey': 10 Openers That Show You Actually Read Their Profile
Move past generic greetings with openers that demonstrate genuine interest. Templates, examples, and the psychology behind first messages that get responses.
How to Actually Read a Dating Profile (And What to Do With What You Find)
Develop the art of profile reading: spotting red flags, recognizing green flags, finding conversation starters, and reading between the lines.
The Slow Dating Movement: Quality Over Quantity
Discover the principles of slow dating: fewer matches, deeper conversations, and a more sustainable approach to finding connection. Combat dating app burnout.
Vulnerability as a Dating Superpower
Learn why vulnerability creates deeper connections, how to share appropriately, and practical ways to develop this essential dating skill.
Why 'Rizz' Is Overrated: The Case for Radical Honesty
Forget the pickup lines and performance. Discover why authentic connection beats manufactured charm every time, and how radical honesty leads to better dating outcomes.