Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about Poise, your AI dating coach for authentic connections.
About Poise
Poise is an AI-powered dating conversation coach designed specifically for Feeld users and the ENM (ethical non-monogamy) community. It helps you craft authentic, thoughtful messages that reflect your personality while navigating the unique nuances of modern dating.
Simply screenshot your dating app conversation and share it with Poise. Our AI analyzes the context, tone, and dynamics of your chat, then suggests personalized responses in your preferred communication style. All processing happens directly on your device for complete privacy.
While Poise was built with Feeld and ENM communities in mind, it works great with any dating app including Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, and more. Our AI understands the nuances of all types of modern dating conversations.
Unlike generic 'Rizz' apps that offer cheesy pickup lines, Poise focuses on authentic communication. We understand complex relationship dynamics like ENM, kink, and couples dating. Plus, all AI processing happens on your device, so we never see your private conversations.
Privacy & Security
Privacy is our top priority. All AI processing happens directly on your device using on-device machine learning. Your conversation screenshots and generated messages never leave your phone, and we have no way to access them.
No. Your conversation screenshots and AI-generated suggestions are processed entirely on your device and are never uploaded to our servers. We only store your email address and subscription status for account management.
No. Poise can only analyze screenshots you explicitly share with the app. We have no access to your dating app accounts or messages. You're always in control of what information you share.
Absolutely not. Since all processing happens on your device, we never have access to your conversations in the first place. Your private dating messages are never used for AI training or any other purpose.
Features & Usage
Poise can help you craft opening messages, maintain engaging conversations, navigate tricky topics like discussing boundaries or relationship structures, express interest authentically, and recover from awkward moments. We offer multiple communication styles to match your personality.
The free tier includes 3 message generations per day with access to basic conversation styles. This lets you try Poise and see how it fits your dating life before committing to a subscription.
Yes! Poise was specifically designed to understand ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and alternative relationship structures. Our AI can help you navigate conversations about relationship dynamics, discuss boundaries, and communicate clearly about your situation.
Absolutely. Poise understands couples dating dynamics and can help you craft messages when dating as a pair. Whether you're looking for a third, networking in the lifestyle community, or navigating any other couples scenario, Poise has you covered.
Pricing & Subscription
Poise offers flexible pricing: Free (3 messages/day), Weekly ($4.99/week), Monthly ($9.99/month, most popular), and Yearly ($59.99/year, best value). All paid plans include unlimited message generations and access to all conversation styles.
Yes, you can cancel anytime directly from your App Store settings. Your access will continue until the end of your current billing period, and you won't be charged again.
The free tier with 3 daily messages lets you experience Poise before subscribing. Additionally, new subscribers can take advantage of our 7-day refund policy through the App Store if Poise isn't the right fit.
Payments are processed securely through the Apple App Store, which accepts all major credit cards, debit cards, Apple Pay, and App Store gift cards. Your payment information is handled entirely by Apple.
Technical
Poise is currently available on iOS (iPhone and iPad). We're actively developing an Android version, and you can join our waitlist to be notified when it launches.
Poise requires an internet connection to verify your subscription status, but the core AI processing happens on your device. This means your conversations stay private while still benefiting from our latest AI improvements.
You can reach our support team at support@trypoise.app. We typically respond within 24 hours on business days. For common questions, check our FAQ or visit our help center in the app.
Still have questions?
We're here to help. Reach out to our support team and we'll get back to you as soon as possible.
support@trypoise.app