Name: Poise - AI Dating Coach
Author: Poise

On Feeld, photos aren't just about being attractive—they're about communicating who you are and what you're seeking. The right photos attract compatible matches; the wrong ones get you passed over.

Here's how to curate photos that work.

What Makes Feeld Different

Not Just About Conventional Attraction

Feeld users look for:

Authenticity over polish
Personality indicators
Compatibility signals
Lifestyle glimpses
Real humans, not models

Showing More Than Looks

Your photos should communicate:

Your vibe and energy
What you're about
How you spend your time
Your relationship style
What connection with you might be like

The Essential Photo Types

1. Clear Face Photo

You need at least one photo that:

Shows your face clearly
Has good lighting
Is recent and accurate
Lets people see who you are
Isn't heavily filtered

2. Full Body Photo

Include a photo showing:

Your general body type
How you carry yourself
More than just your face
Setting expectations accurately

3. Personality/Interest Photo

Show what you're about:

Doing an activity you love
At a place you enjoy
Expressing who you are
Something conversation-starting

4. Lifestyle/Context Photo

Help people picture your life:

Travel, hobbies, daily life
Social context (with friends, solo)
Your typical environments
What spending time with you might look like

Photo Quality Guidelines

Lighting

Good lighting is essential:

Natural light is best
Avoid harsh shadows on face
Not too dark, not washed out
Outdoor photos often work well

Resolution

Quality matters:

Clear, not blurry
High enough resolution
Not pixelated when expanded
Professional not required, but crisp is

Composition

Basic framing:

You're the clear subject
Not too far away or too close
Nothing distracting in background
Good crop if needed

What Works on Feeld Specifically

Authenticity Over Polish

Feeld users appreciate:

Real photos, not overly staged
Genuine expressions
Imperfection that shows humanity
Photos that feel like you

Signals of What You're Seeking

Photos can communicate:

Adventure-seeking vs. cozy homebody
Sexually confident vs. shy explorer
Extroverted vs. introverted
Relationship style hints

Approachability

Photos that invite conversation:

Smile or friendly expression
Open body language
Doing something interesting
Looking like someone enjoyable to talk to

For Different Situations

If You're Kinky

Consider:

Subtle kink signals if comfortable
Tasteful photos that hint at interests
Nothing that violates guidelines
Photos that kinky people will recognize

If You're ENM/Poly

Show:

Independence and wholeness
Lifestyle that includes multiple connections
Not just couple photos if partnered
Your individual personality

If You're Seeking Casual

Convey:

Fun and playful energy
Attractiveness without being explicit
Someone who would be enjoyable short-term
Not giving serious relationship only vibes

If You're Seeking Connection

Show:

Depth and substance
Relationship-ready signals
Emotional availability hints
Someone worth getting to know

Photo Order Strategy

First Photo Is Everything

Your first photo should be:

Your best representation
Clear face, good lighting
Most attractive but accurate
What you want to lead with
The hook that gets them to look further

Strategic Sequence

Order matters:

Best face photo (the hook)
Full body or activity shot
Personality/interest photo
Additional variety
End strong

Last Photo Matters Too

End with:

Something memorable
Conversation starter
Leaves impression
Not your weakest photo

Getting Good Photos

Take New Ones

If your photos are lacking:

Ask a friend to take some
Use timer/tripod
Good lighting + good outfit + relaxed expression
Take many, select few

Use What You Have Wisely

From existing photos:

Crop strategically
Choose most recent
Variety of contexts
Represent current you

Professional Photoshoots

Worth considering if:

You have no good photos
You're serious about dating
You want high-quality options
But make them look natural, not headshots

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Group Photos

Problems:

People can't tell who you are
Comparing you to friends
Confusing for swipers
One small face photo at most, if needed

Old Photos

Don't use photos that:

Are years old
Don't look like current you
Misrepresent your appearance
Will surprise people when meeting

Heavily Filtered/Edited

Avoid:

Filters that distort your face
Heavy editing
Beauty modes
Anything that creates in-person disappointment

No Variety

Problematic:

All the same angle
Same expression every photo
All selfies
Doesn't show different aspects

Updating Your Photos

When to Refresh

Update when:

Photos are over 6-12 months old
You've changed significantly
Results are declining
You have better options

Testing What Works

Try:

Different first photos
Different photo orders
Adding/removing specific photos
Noticing what generates matches

FAQ

How many photos should I have? 4-6 is ideal. Enough for variety, not so many that quality drops. All photos should add something.

Should I include photos with other people? Sparingly, if at all. One group photo is okay. But the focus should be on you.

Are mirror selfies okay? Not ideal, but better than no full body shot. If you use one, make it good quality with clean background.

Should I include funny/meme photos? If it represents your personality, maybe one. But make sure core photos are clear representations of you.

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Photos That Connect

The best Feeld photos show who you really are—and attract people who want exactly that. Once your photos get matches, Poise helps you turn them into real connections.